Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Scared Shitless

Trusting, loving, caring, investing emotionally, connecting, the unknown....all of these things scare the shit out of me. He, he also scares the shit out of me, giving a fuck about him scares the shit out of me. Having to hold back my true feelings- deny them, because the truth is if I say them out loud it will shed a light on them and I will have no choice but to face what I am really feeling. Caring about this person leaves me open, vulnerable, and unprotected. When Im single and not interested in anyone I feel lonely but safe. There's no way that someone can disappoint or hurt me if their not there. I don't know what it is but ever since christmas my emotions have been out of wack. I don't know if it was because I was back in Cleveland, a city that holds many painful memories for me. Maybe me moving to Pittsburgh allowed me 4 years to be able to surpress my emotions instead of dealing with them. And now that Iv'e moved back, so have the emotions. I get a couple of laughs everyday, but not enough release this darkness that has come over me. I feel like the quiet, akward girl with self esteem issues that I used to be. Forget the person that you've seen for the past 4 years, before that I was a wreck. A suicidal emotional wreck. I feel stronger than I did back then, but Im not where I wanna be- which is past it all and its making me sad and angry. Those are two emotions that I despise, emotions that i hate and have spent the last 4 years trying to kill them off. Who knew that a move would cause them to resurface. I know for a fact that I'm not strong enough to handle this on my own, im not. Im just tired of being alone. All I need is that one unselfish person that wants to make sure im ok. One that truly gives a fuck about me! No man, and I mean no man has ever shown me that before.
Scared Shitless

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